My problem is I still love people who hurt me; are you in these shoes? then this article is specially for you. Note that the person you love the most will hurt you the most.
I understand this is a hard time and sincerely I can tell you from experience that I have been there before, I know how it feels to get hurt by people we love and still love people who hurt me.
Sometimes before I get a solution to the problem of still loving people who hurt me, I do think I am crazy about my actions.
In fact I am still the one who goes back to beg and apologize for being right and not wrong, all because I love them still. It truly crazes!
As I try digging up research to find a solution to this problem, I got to realize that it wasn’t an act of craziness but a loving heart, weak but pure heart that chooses peace over violence.
Solution To Problem Of Still Loving People Who Hurt You
This is a psychological problem and reserve is the case, till you put your mind together to come into agreement that the person you love the most will hurt you most, until you accept this fact, until then you solve the problem of getting hurt by someone you love.
People are naturally meant to be predators that hurt, hunt and still people’s happiness, especially the ones you love, these particular people will hurt you the most.
You should rather stay away from getting close to people or people getting close to you, so as to avoid closeness, the more connected the bond the harder it gets to solve the problem of still loving people who hurts you.
Reduce the closeness by stop being too available, avoid creating intimacy, emotional feelings and all. Your availability creates intimacy,
Stop being too emotional, but rather have a stone heart that does not let emotions bypass your reasoning .
People may see you as a bad person, say negative words about you, call you a proud person. Well that is their own opinion. And it never counts if you do not pay attention to such words.
Your happiness is your gain, so care about yourself, love yourself the more and never get hurt by people you love.